tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post9092718273304956354..comments2023-07-11T08:40:06.411-07:00Comments on I'm a Mom not a Professional: A Childs Death, What it’s like…the UGLY and how to helpJaime S.http://www.blogger.com/profile/03517975985896905796noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-500536102159188142019-04-03T23:29:59.700-07:002019-04-03T23:29:59.700-07:00Great post.thank you so much.Love this blog.
clipp...<br />Great post.thank you so much.Love this blog.<br /><a href="https://www.clippingpathquick.com/" title="Clipping Path Service" rel="nofollow">clipping path service</a><br />Lisa Resnickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15274957697176418481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-34061846072731367842013-09-05T09:08:19.888-07:002013-09-05T09:08:19.888-07:00Found your blog through your crockpot post. Came t...Found your blog through your crockpot post. Came to the home page to see what else you'd written. Thank you for this post too. Very sorry about your son. Thankful that you took the time to write this post too.Noisy Quiethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15127095448807063093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-26555274296757910812013-04-19T23:11:28.025-07:002013-04-19T23:11:28.025-07:00Thank you for being able to express the feelings a...Thank you for being able to express the feelings after the loss of a child. I can't do it, I don't have the courage nor the words to describe the pain and sorrow. I feel broken, sometimes I feel numb, It has been almost six years since I lost my baby boy, stillbirth, unknown cause. Those words will hunt me forever...I know you understand, what you feel I have felt. No one takes the time to remember him, everyone forgot, I haven't. How could I??? Jannymkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16615662579031878478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-61821682328028334892013-04-19T23:05:05.714-07:002013-04-19T23:05:05.714-07:00Thank you for being able to describe the feeling o...Thank you for being able to describe the feeling of the loss of a child. I can't talk about it, I don't have the words, I share your pain, I still feel the pain and the hurt, it has been almost 6 years since I lost my son, not much has change, I have become so much better at pretending. There is a part of me that still feels numb, a part of me that crumbles from time to time. Grief is a long journey not a destination. Sometimes I feel like no one understands what I go through everyday, everyone forgot already, I haven't, I never will. Jannymkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16615662579031878478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-78985569837471997202012-12-03T19:20:44.746-08:002012-12-03T19:20:44.746-08:00Just came over to look you up since I hadn't s...Just came over to look you up since I hadn't seen any posts in a while and read this. My heart goes out to you and your whole family. Your words were beautiful. I have lost someone very close to me but not a child. I could relate to some of your thoughts/feelings. I am truly sorry and will be thinking of you and praying for you often. Please feel free to reach out if you ever need to talk to someone else with kids who has been through a loss.Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02270713294346692234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-91936828587019626782012-11-09T12:10:30.905-08:002012-11-09T12:10:30.905-08:00Jaime, I want to punch the not-nice lady at the s...Jaime, I want to punch the not-nice lady at the store in the face. You forgot to list "punch the mean people in the face" as one of the things people can do to help. It would help, wouldn't it? You should add it to the list. <br /><br />Also, I love you. My heart hurts for you. I wish I lived in the construction hole next door. (excited to see your new house, btw) I'm so, so, so, so SO sorry about Xander. You are the last person on earth who should have to suffer such horrific heartache. I can imagine how having to wait to hold your son again will make this life seem unbearably long. I also can see how your entrance into your celestial mansion will be that much sweeter because of your long awaited reunion. I imagine Xander is there now , longing for you as you long for him, and anxiously waiting to lie in your arms again. Luckily for him, heaven time goes a lot faster than earth time. I pray for your comfort. I pray for your healing. I will remember your sixth child. I promise. A thousand hugs for you, my dear friend. Love, Bobbi <br />Bobbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17933230319899356088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-23657514514438154492012-10-30T10:10:39.984-07:002012-10-30T10:10:39.984-07:00I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing these though...I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. They helped me a lot. Nathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04196081463474885458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-28269631918439037342012-10-29T15:05:41.717-07:002012-10-29T15:05:41.717-07:00Thank you for being so candid, for telling us the ...Thank you for being so candid, for telling us the real deal and what you need. We wish that you didn't have to endure this trial and will continue to pray for your comfort and peace. <br /><br />We love you, Jaime and Cameron and each of your six children. We will always be here for you as you continue on this journey of healing until you hold sweet Xander again. (I can't wait to hold him, too!)Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15457344059712907610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-86442484724781693892012-10-29T14:47:46.379-07:002012-10-29T14:47:46.379-07:00Jaime, I agree with every word you said. I think ...Jaime, I agree with every word you said. I think I will email this to my family members and friends, who have been wonderful, yet there is always that question of how do I act and what can I do? One thing I have realized and have been surprised at is that my kids seem to grieve much in the same way as we do. Second guessing things, guilt, sorrow, can't sleep. It is heart-breaking. My daughter even came in one night, late, with big tears and said she thinks she played too rough with Mia and felt responsible, that she caused her brain damage. So heart breaking. I agree that any age is probably just as tough. The heart brake of not getting to see a child grow up, to know their personality, to get to interact with them daily. And my biggest heartache is the gaping hole in our family. Someone is missing!! I want to scream that out at any normal thing our family does. I am constantly looking around. That feeling that I have forgotten something, someone. My arms ache to hold my daughter, as I know your arms have done the same. And one of the more difficult things, knowing that God could raise my child up and I could take her home if it was His will, and the moment when I knew that it wasn't his will. What could our tiny children possibly need to do in heaven? We need them here! This is a question I may have to deal with my entire life. Jaime, this was so well written, and an echo of what we are going through. I cried as I read your words. I know that this will be great for our many loved ones that are aching to do something, when it seems there is nothing to be done. John Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06739105789213772729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-26490626378812731232012-10-29T13:04:22.156-07:002012-10-29T13:04:22.156-07:00Thank you for posting this! It is so hard to read,...Thank you for posting this! It is so hard to read, so hard to live in any form ( I had miscarriages ) but after it alters your life and you are FOREVER changed, it truely does get easier to go on. And to be aware of others, never to leave them to suffer alone. You are awesome! petesprincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10879542419034856186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7781592571247948188.post-60231174048380974122012-10-29T12:57:37.128-07:002012-10-29T12:57:37.128-07:00I can't begin to imagine how difficult this po...I can't begin to imagine how difficult this post was to write, but I want to say a heartfelt thank you.<br /><br />I've never lost a child but it was touch and go for 3 months with our Ethan, (I know it's not the same, but being told to prepare for the worst it felt as though he was gone already} I wish people around me at the time had acted / behaved in the ways you describe here.<br /><br />Anyway, thank you for this, I'm sure this post will help others who sadly find themselves in the same position as your family, perhaps this will go some way to easing what must be a difficult time.<br /><br />Blessings and best wishes to you<br /><br />Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16541883513682903531noreply@blogger.com